Tuesday, February 01, 2011

REMEMBERING MARTY

We got the sad news this morning that our oh so sweet friend and former neighbor died this morning. Her funeral on Saturday will be the fourth I have attended in 3 months. sigh

I want to be like Marty when I'm in my 70s and 80s (she was 88). She was spunky. And fun. She was smart. She was kind. She loved to play bridge. She loved football. She loved her church and her family and friends. She was an excellent cook. Oh how I remember her blueberry bran muffins. She would ask what day we were going to be home for breakfast. (She knew we were always off early to play tennis or golf and she wanted us both to be home when she made them.) When I told her a day that would be good for us, she would show up that morning in her robe with hot from the oven muffins and I would have the coffee ready and the butter out. Oh, what I wouldn't give to have another basket and another morning with her! She also made the best homemade applesauce. She was a spiffy dresser and always had packages being delivered from Talbots, etc. Until she was diagnosed with cancer, she got regular manicures and pedicures, massages and facials. She always looked her best. She loved George's cologne and told him so every time she hugged him. He teased her about having boyfriends and she would blush. And guess what? She had one! I could go on and on, but it's hard...

I will miss you sweet friend.

Lord, you really got a good one today!




Hugs from the beach,
Kat


"Father, please let me be a blessing to someone today."

22 comments:

RachelD said...

Another big Grandma hug from the Heartland---you're needing one about now, I think.

I'm so sorry for your loss, and glad you had such a blessing in your life.

rachel

Mari said...

I'm sorry for another loss, Kat. She sounds likes such a great lady! I would have loved her too.

Jean said...

I love her just from your description. I want to be like her too when I'm that age.

Wish I could hug you, Kat. Praying for some happy times to come your way SOON!

Sandy said...

Those are beautiful memories of your friend. What a pretty picture of her. I know you heart has had so much sadness lately. Sure is good to know that God is walking with you during this part of the journey.

Karen Mortensen said...

What a wonderful lady. She is so pretty too. You are truly blessed for having known her.

Bacardi Mama said...

Oh my friend, you are really have a tough row to hoe lately. Sending my sympathy and prayers are with you. ((hugs))

Arabella said...

She sounds like a wonderful friend and a real angel on earth.

Big hugs and prayers to you during this time.

Marie

Teresa @ Grammy Girlfriend said...

What a sweet tribute to what sounds like a remarkable lady.....I want to be like her too.....it may be a little late to get started on the cooking,...but
I can buy good muffins....

Tales From My Empty Nest said...

Oh Kat, I am so sorry. What a beautiful lady! And such an incredible one at that! I have had 4 friends who have lost a parent within the past month, so I know how you feel. Praying that God will comfort you. Love & blessings from NC!

Sharon said...

Oh Kat! I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful friend. From the photo and the description, she looks like a real beauty inside and out. You've had more than your share of grief and loss lately. Let's pray it ends right now.

Hugs....Sharon

Megan said...

Kat-it certainly has been an emotional few months for you.
I'm sorry to hear about Marty. She certainly was a wonderful lady from your description. She'd be happy knowing of your fond memories.
((((hugs))))

Desert Dreaming said...

Kat, what a beautiful woman, from her sweet smile to what sounds like a sweet heart as well. I'm so sorry for the loss of another friend. She certainly lived a nice long life, though no matter what age, we don't want them to leave us. You are so fortunate to have known such a dear person. God has her in his safety and paradise now. Be strong, and my prayers for your friend and for you as well...you've been through enough sadness...

Your friend,

Joni

Living Life in the Lowcountry said...

Oh gosh, so sorry for your loss!
Hugs~

Becky said...

Thinking about you Kat. It is so hard to loose friends.

Sally said...

I'm so sorry, Kat. I love you, and sad for your losses. ((hugs))

Knitwit said...

What a beautiful tribute to your friend. I love the picture of her in the flowers. Praying for your family and friends today.

NitWit1 said...

I understand and wonder why the season of thanksgiving and joy is more often a season of sorrow.

Over the years, when i did some journalism as a hobby income source, I noticed the increase in obits starting in November through February.

My Mother died in Nov. and Father in February.

This year have lost two personal church friends in November, 4 high schoolmates in December, one very dear friend in November.

I ponder the mystery? Is living like the seasons and ebb and flow of circle of life>

Condolences on the loss of your friend.

sharon said...

What a beautiful person she must have been both inside and out! I agree with you I too want to be just like her at 80 something!
You certainly have had your share of sadness in the past month. But I can just imagine all of your friends in heaven having a great time together! Hugs!

Cherdecor said...

What a beautiful picture of her in the field of flowers! She looks like she was a very kind person.

Melissa said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. It really sounds like God got a great one :)

Candace said...

What a beautifully written tribute to your lovely friend! I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray you are surrounded by His peace and love during these hard times that you are going through.

hugs, Candace

RosieJo said...

I hope you were able to convey to her the sweet sentiments you have shared with us. As hard as it is to lose another friend, you now have 4 openings for new ones.